The Leadership Friction | Edition No. 23 | August 4, 2026
When Everyone Is Talking and Nothing Is Landing
Communication rarely breaks down over words. It breaks down over translation. Part two of a series on the three diagnostic lenses of the Next to Nunn Diagnostic Method.
I sat in a leadership meeting recently where the CEO said something that stuck with me: “We over-communicate here. We have all-hands, Slack, email, one-on-ones. And people still tell me they don’t know what’s going on.”
He wasn’t wrong about the volume. He was wrong about what volume solves.
This is the second piece in a series on the three diagnostic lenses of the Next to Nunn Diagnostic Method™. Last time, we looked at People. This time, we’re looking at Communication, the lens most leaders assume they already understand because they talk constantly. Talking and communicating are not the same activity. One moves information. The other creates shared understanding. Most organizations are excellent at the first and starving for the second.
The Research
What the Research Actually Shows
Here’s what I’ve noticed matches the data. Gallup’s 2023 research on workplace trust found that only 21% of U.S. employees strongly agree they trust their organization’s leadership communication. Not the message itself. The communication of it. That’s a trust gap, not an information gap.
Harvard Business Review’s research points to where that gap originates. Its analysis found that two-thirds of managers report discomfort communicating with the people who report to them. Think about what that means practically. The layer of the organization closest to the work is also the layer least equipped, or least confident, in the conversations that build trust.
And Gallup’s ongoing engagement research shows managers account for roughly 70% of the variance in team engagement, while only 44% of managers report ever receiving formal training in that role.
The people with the most influence over trust and engagement are the least prepared for the conversations that build it.
The Pattern
Why This Gets Missed
One thing I’ve learned is that leaders diagnose communication problems by counting. How many meetings. How many updates. How many channels. None of that tells you whether understanding actually transferred.
Here’s where leaders get stuck. They add more communication to fix a communication problem, the same way you’d add more water to a bucket that has a hole in it. The bucket doesn’t need more water. It needs the hole found.
The hole is almost never volume. It’s usually one of three things: expectations that were assumed instead of stated, feedback that got softened until it lost its meaning, or decisions that were made in one room and never explained to the people executing them.
Communication is the connective tissue between people and systems. When it’s working, people understand not just what to do, but why it matters and who owns it. When it’s not working, you get the exact scenario that CEO described. Constant noise. No shared understanding underneath it.
The Friction Point
More communication is not the same thing as better communication.
The friction shows up when leaders equate volume with clarity, then get frustrated when neither trust nor understanding improves. The message count goes up. The confusion stays the same. Leaders start to wonder if the problem is the people, when the actual problem is a system that was never built to translate information into understanding.
Two Moves This Week
01
Audit for translation, not transmission
Pick one message you’ve already sent this month, an update, a decision, a change. Ask three people on the receiving end what they understood from it. If the answers vary widely, the message was sent but not translated. Fix the format before you fix the frequency.
02
Have one manager conversation about discomfort
Ask a manager on your team where they feel least confident communicating: giving hard feedback, explaining a decision they didn’t make, or having a conflict conversation. Don’t fix it in that conversation. Just name it. Naming the discomfort is the first step toward training for it instead of avoiding it.
What’s one message you sent this month that you’re not sure actually landed?
The friction is where growth lives.
Amy K. Nunn is a leadership strategist and founder of Next to Nunn. She works with CEOs and leadership teams to align their people, communication, and systems.
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The Leadership Friction | Next to Nunn | nexttonunn.com | Edition 23 | August 4, 2026
